Wednesday, January 16, 2013

How do you deal with random haters?

I always say how thankful I am to readers and viewers like you who are so kind and gentle and ever so supportive. Honestly, I can't do this without you guys! :)

But one thing that really upsets me are some haters. Out of, say, 500 positive comments, there will always be that 1 comment that will ruin your mood.

Today, I left the house feeling so ecstatic because only 3 days to go before the concert that I've been waiting for so long. I left the house all smiles and I seriously felt like smiling at every people I came across with. And then I got to the office, checked my mail and found these...

Some of you may ask why I care so much for haters? I actually don't. But, be honest. When it took you so long to build your house, decorate it and beautify it... and then a random passerby throws a garbage in your lawn, won't you get mad and wouldn't you also want to clean that trash??

I don't understand why some people hate so much on other people.

First of all, YES, I DO HAVE BAD SKIN. I suffered 6 months of severe acne breakout. It took me a LOT of courage to go out of the house, continue with my life and face the world looking like that! What did you have to go through?? Sometimes, haters just hate even without knowing what you've been through. 

I'm ugly? Tell me, how do you define BEAUTY? Flawless skin, blue eyes, sharp nose, plump lips, V shaped jaw line, perfect white teeth? If you do, then I am sorry to say but you are too shallow. The world is not just about being perfect on the outside. When I had the acne breakout months ago, that's when God taught me how to be humble. How not to look and judge people based on their appearance. I've learned so many things because of my acne. What have you learned??

I wish my life as a blogger and YouTuber could be easy. I just want to write and upload videos, you know. But I know, even the most famous ones like Michelle Phan and even the most adorable Bubzbeauty have haters so how can I be, a simple and newbie blogger, be any exemption?

I just pray for more courage. 
One day, I hope I can just shrug this kind of feeling 
and learn from Anne Curtis' famous line : MASTER THE ART OF DEADMA.

Thank you for reading today!



  1. I totally agree with you! I also have experience haters saying stuff about my weight and also my face when I post videos..I just ignore them now..nakaka wrinkles lang! haha!

    Haters are like that because they envy the courage that you have to show yourself to the world. Don't mind them anymore kasi at the end of the day ikaw pa rin ang panalo :)

    Smile always!

  2. I knew you would read this, Alice. hehe. thank you! I hope people become more cautious of what they say next time. lalo na when they dont know you well.. Minsan kasi masyadong nagjujudge and they just say whatever they feel like saying and try to escape by saying "its a free world" or "we have the freedom of speech and expression".. I say, whatever happened to the word RESPECT?

  3. parang may something siya u know her personally?

    1. Hi Karen.. Not really sure.. I don't think she's from the Philippines eh...


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  6. hahaha!! miss tine,pakialamerang bakla lang yan, she's not worth your time and effort, tama.. DEADMA lang talaga panapat jan, or block mo nalang xa,mas marami naman kaming likers :D continue vlogging, ganon naman kasi talaga, we cannot please everybody, and we're not born to please everybody din ah! :) Inggitera tawag sa mga taong hindi marunong i-appreciate ang kung anong meron sa iba na wala sila. Feeling din naman nya ikinaganda nya yung mga ganyang klase ng comments?.

    ..sabagay masasaktan din ako kung may magsasabi sa akin ng ganyan pero iisipin ko nalang na wala akong mapapala kung didibdibin ko sinabi niya.. ^_^ (shiena)

    1. Hello Shiena! Thank you for reading! I am happy that I often see you here on the blog. :)
      I dont think naiingit naman siya.. minsan kasi may mga tao na talagang sinasabi nila yung gusto nilang sabihin without considering yung feeling ng ibang tao. Like, I do know I have bad skin and I am still struggling.. but why did she have to reiterate it.. that's just one thing I can't understand..

  7. BOOM!! That's what you get for being a hater, girl! People like that need to grow up and grow out with their insecurities..hehe
    Keep it up, Tine!! They're no worthy of your precious time.. I love it so much - MASTER THE ART OF DEADMA..

  8. People who bully and talk trash about others online are just insecure and dissatisfied with their own lives. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all, right? ;) Your blog is GREAT, you are beautiful, and you seem like a really nice person. I never take people who criticize others for no reason seriously! If you want to be respected, you have to respect others. And those who doesn't understand that is not worth my time ^_^

    1. Hi Marie! Wow! Your words were so nice and sweet! :) If I always meet sweet people like you, I'm sure I will be more inspired to keep going. Thank you! :)


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